I was looking through profiles on OkCupid and found this awesome script called OkChoices that allows for more gender/sexuality options for your profile other than male/female or gay/bi/straight. The list is somewhat limited in terms of identities, but it's much better and more inclusive than OkCupid is normally.These are the current options:
Gender
[[Agender]]
[[Butch]]
[[Femme]]
[[Gender Fluid]]
[[Gender Neutral]]
[[Genderless]]
[[Genderqueer]]
[[Intersex]]
[[Neutrois]]
[[Transgender]]
[[Trans man]]
[[Trans woman]]
Orientation:
[[Asexual]]
[[Demisexual]]
[[Grey-Asexual]]
[[Heteroflexible]]
[[Homoflexible]]
[[Pansexual]]
[[Polyamorous]]
[[Queer]]
- NFS