Communication is a hot topic in our community, whether it be communicating our identity, sexuality, or negotiating relationships and boundaries. How we communicate and how we interpret the communication of others can often drastically affect our relationships with those around us. However, communication is often not simple when the topics we want to discuss are complicated. We may find ourselves reaching for words and come up empty handed or with inadequate language. this is especially difficult when our gender and sexuality intersect in weird and often contradictory ways.